subtitled A Graphic Memoir Of Family, Community, And The Fight For Environmental Justice.
As a grossly overscheduled person myself, I would genuinely like to know where Eddie Ahn finds the time and energy for everything he does! A day job, volunteer work and a cartooning career? I was both impressed and secretly comforted reading this book, knowing that there really are other people as overextended as I am who, crucially, aren’t just doing things for the money.
And don’t get me wrong, money is great! I would 100% welcome more of it into my life. When Eddie’s student debt was cleared, I cheered! But unlike the parents of Eddie’s generation, I would far rather have a practical minivan that requires minimal upkeep than an expensive, cash-draining status symbol Mercedes. It’s so strange: sometimes I wonder whether the social gains we’ve made as a culture, valuing positivity and kindness over shame and being mean, have any relation to the increasing micronization of economic effort, with gig and hustle culture becoming far more prevalent as late-stage capitalism keeps driving its wedge between capital and labor.
That’s not the point of this quiet, thoughtful graphic novel, tho it certainly examines the different attitudes of generations of Asian immigrants and their American-born kids. Eddie’s parents came to Texas from South Korea for grad school, but realized that the fastest way to make money was to open a liquor store. Eddie grew up believing that he had to get a lucrative professional career in order to repay his parents’ sacrifices — tho a large part of me is all, “Yeah, no, they moved to Texas for themselves, it’s not like they were fleeing abject poverty or danger.” Tho maybe they were and it just didn’t come across in this book! The whole Asian mindset of kids needing to smother their own needs and desires so that their parents can impress their peers just irritates the crap out of me, and I say that as an Asian parent myself.